Discreet & affair dating

Affair & Discreet Dating Sites Compared

For discreet dating platforms, privacy is the product. The useful comparison is not who has the most members, but how each platform protects your identity: what appears on your statement, how photos are protected, and whether your data is really deleted when you leave.

We do not judge why people use these services. We compare how well they protect their users.

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Affair Dating comparison
# Free features Payment methods Apps Details Visit
1
Ashley Madison Affair Dating
From USD 14.99 Credits
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  • Apple App Store in-app purchase
  • Mobile web
  • iOS app
Full profile Official sources
9 Nov 2026
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Victoria Milan logo
Victoria Milan Affair Dating
From USD 79.99 Mixed
  • Free trial / free start ('Try For Free & Anonymously')
  • Limited free features (unspecified)
  • Credit/debit card
  • Apple App Store in-app purchase
  • Google Play in-app purchase
  • Mobile web
  • iOS app
  • Android app
Full profile Official sources
9 Nov 2026
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Gleeden logo
Gleeden Affair Dating
From GBP 19.99 Credits
  • Free registration ('Subscribe for free in just a few clicks')
  • Apple App Store in-app purchase
  • Mobile web
  • iOS app
Full profile Official sources
9 Nov 2026
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4
Illicit Encounters logo
Illicit Encounters Affair Dating
From GBP 139.99 Freemium
  • Create profile and upload photos
  • Search profiles
  • Send and receive Say Hellos
  • Receive messages and Virtual Gifts
  • Full Gold Membership free for women (gender-balance based)
  • Credit/debit card
  • Cheque, cash or postal order by post
  • Bank transfer
  • Phone payment
  • Mobile web
Full profile Official sources
9 Nov 2026
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Information comes from each platform’s official site and app-store listing. Prices change: check the official site before paying. Order is editorial and never based on commission. How we compare.

Frequently asked questions

What appears on my bank statement?

Most discreet platforms bill under a neutral company name. We record the exact descriptor policy for each platform once verified.

Is my data deleted when I close my account?

Policies differ: some delete immediately, some keep data for a period, and some charge for full deletion. We list each platform’s deletion policy and link to the official instructions.